Erotica by Shannon

The Look That Loves:  Rediscovering Intimacy Through Eye Contact Eye contact isn't just romantic—it’s the heartbeat of connection. In a world buzzing with notifications and noise, the simplest glance can whisper, “I see you. I’m with you.” They say the eyes are the windows to the soul—but in love, they’re also the doorway to feeling truly known. 💞 Why Eye Contact Still Matters It anchors you in the now—no deadlines, no distractions, just presence. It speaks fluently in silence: tenderness, empathy, even that unmistakable “I adore you” look. It reignites desire, reminding you of the first spark that ignited everything. 🤍 The Quiet Magic of Being Seen Eye contact isn’t just about looking—it’s about witnessing . A lingering glance over dinner.  A wink after an inside joke.  That moment before a kiss. These are the micro-moments where intimacy lives—no price tag, no performance. ✨ Try This: 20 Seconds to Reconnect Next time you're together, pause. Put...

Pleasure Beyond Partnership:  💞 Why Masturbation Keeps Intimacy Thriving After 50 Did you know that The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that 94.5% of women worldwide have masturbated at least once? And most continue to do so while in committed relationships. In fact: 1 in 4 women masturbate up to three times a week to boost sexual desire, relax, sleep better, and reduce Stress. Nearly 1 in 5 say they prefer solo pleasure over partner stimulation. Among the 5% who've never masturbated, the top reasons were low sexual desire or the belief that pleasure should only come from a partner. Dr. Andrea Burri of the Institute for Sex Counseling and Sexual Sciences in Switzerland explains: “For many women, masturbation isn’t a substitute for partnered sex—it’s a powerful tool for stress relief and relaxation.” And she's right. Not all women climax from vaginal penetration alone. A satisfying solo session can be the ultimate reset—grounding, empowering, and intensely pleasur...

🌱 May you leave with a seed planted. The news of Rosalynn Carter's passing stirred something in me. She was a woman who stood beside her husband not just in title, but in truth. "Rosalynn was my equal partner in everything I ever accomplished," Jimmy Carter said. "She gave me wise guidance and encouragement when I needed it. As long as Rosalynn was in the world, I always knew somebody loved and supported me." That kind of love—the kind that steadies you, that sees you, that stays—is rare.  And it made me think of R. About a month ago, I stepped out on faith and told R I loved him.  I didn't expect him to say it back. I know how he moves through the world—his love is quiet, steady, shown in what he does more than what he says. I get that. Still, even with that understanding, my fears and doubts crept in -- I'd just exposed a part of me that's a bit shy, insecure, and vulnerable.   They whispered stories I didn't ask to hear. My mind took me on a ...

💞 Rekindling Connection After 50: How to Manage Expectations and Feel More in Love If you've been together for decades, you know that love isn't just about grand gestures or romantic getaways. It's about the everyday moments—the quiet glances, the shared routines, the way you show up for each other. And yet, even in the most committed relationships, frustration can creep in. You might find yourself feeling less in love, even as you try harder to make things better. Here's the truth: improvement alone isn't enough. Without learning how to manage your expectations realistically, even the most well-intentioned efforts can leave you feeling disappointed or disconnected. 🧠 Shift Your Thinking, Shift Your Relationship How you think about your partner shapes your experience of the relationship. When you're feeling low, it's easy to slip into critical thoughts: "They don't care about me." "They never help around the house." "They'v...

💑 Four Ways to Keep Your Relationship Thriving After 50 With a little effort and intention, any relationship can be reignited—no matter how many anniversaries you've celebrated. And here's the beautiful truth: the more often you add a little spark, the more natural and joyful it becomes. Whether you've been together for 20, 30, or even 50 years, these four essentials can help you keep your relationship alive, intimate, and deeply fulfilling. 1. 🌱 Water What You've Planted We live in a culture that romanticizes effortless love. But real intimacy—especially the kind that spans decades—needs tending. If your relationship feels a little dry, don't panic. It's not broken. It's just thirsty. Many couples stop looking at each other with the same warmth they had when they first fell in love. They're still having Sex, but the emotional connection feels muted. That's normal. And fixable. Start by acknowledging that your relationship deserves attention. Then,...

Still Sexy: How Couples Over 50 Can Reawaken Intimacy Have you been with your partner for decades and still cherish the closeness, laughter, and sensuality you share? If so, you're not alone—and you're certainly not out of options when it comes to reigniting sexual desire. Let's be clear: this isn't about acrobatics or chasing the latest bedroom trend. It's about understanding how your brain shapes desire—and how you can gently reawaken that spark with intention, curiosity, and care. 💞 From Fireworks to Deep Connection In the early days of love, everything feels electric. A glance, a touch, a whisper—your whole body responds. But over time, that initial rush naturally settles into something more profound: emotional intimacy, trust, and comfort. This shift isn't a sign that passion is gone; it's a sign that it's evolving. It's a sign that your relationship has matured. And while you may not feel the same urgency for Sex, that doesn't mean desire ...

🔥Stress Less, Love More: Keeping Intimacy Alive After 50 Let's be honest—life after 50 can be rich, layered, and deeply satisfying. But it can also be noisy. Between career transitions, caregiving, health shifts, and the quiet hum of long-term partnership, Stress has a way of sneaking into the bedroom and dimming the glow. And yet… the desire for connection doesn't fade. If anything, it deepens. For couples who've weathered decades together, intimacy becomes less about novelty and more about nuance. It's the slow burn, the knowing glance, the shared history that makes touch feel electric. But Stress? It's the thief of that electricity. So how do we reclaim it? 1. Stress Is a Libido Killer—But You Can Outsmart It Stress doesn't just live in your mind; it settles in your body. It tightens muscles, shortens breath, and hijacks hormones. And when cortisol is running the show, desire often takes a back seat. But here's the good news: you've got tools. Breath...

I met you in kiss and flame,  Reached for truth beneath the skin,  Trembled close to where you feel,  Afraid to name this aching truth.

The Drawer That Knows Me My fingers hover above the keys, trembling with anticipation. A slow, delicious warmth unfurls between my thighs, pulsing beneath the soft cotton that barely conceals my desire. The drawer calls to me—silent, patient, and full of promise. But I resist. For now. If I finish this piece, the reward will be richer, more decadent. Delayed gratification is its own kind of foreplay. I can almost feel her—cool, smooth, and polished—pressing against my skin. I lick my lips, imagining the moment she’ll slide across my stomach, firm and familiar, ready to fill me with pleasure. She’s been mine for years, tucked away in that drawer like a secret lover waiting for her cue. She knows my rhythms. My cravings. My surrender. And tonight, she’ll deliver again. The pulse between my legs grows louder, more insistent. I stop typing. Rational thought dissolves. The drawer wins.

💬 Does Size Really Matter?  Let's Talk About What Truly Counts By the time we've hit our stride in life—careers established, families formed, and relationships deepened—we've learned that intimacy isn't about chasing perfection. It's about connection, trust, and knowing what makes each other tick. So, with that said, does penis size matter? Sure, it's a question that's echoed through locker rooms and late-night conversations for decades. But for those of us in long-term, fulfilling relationships, the answer is far more nuanced—and far less about inches. 🧠 What Really Fuels Desire After 50 Emotional intimacy : Feeling seen, heard, and valued is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Confidence and communication : Knowing what you want—and being able to ask for it—beats any physical attribute. Playfulness and curiosity : Exploring together, laughing together, and staying open to new experiences keep the spark alive. 💡 The Honest Real Truth About Size Science tell...

A kiss is a conversation.  Discover how by checking out the presentation below.  Rekindle your relationship by learning simple and easy steps to revamp your everyday kisses with your partner.  I hope you enjoy.  -Shannon A Kiss is a Conversation A Kiss Is a Conversation: How to Speak Without Words and Connect Deeply Positive Welcome: Greet warmly. No Stress talk. Your energy sets a safe emotional tone. Go to this Sway