Erotica by Shannon

💫 Flip the Script: Why Sex Before Date Night Might Be Your Best Move Yet Long-term love is a beautiful thing—but let's be honest, it can also get a little... predictable. You've done the dinners, the movies, the "we'll see how we feel later" routine. But what if you flipped the script? Here's a bold idea: make love before you leave the house. 🔥 Why It Works Instant Connection : Physical intimacy before date night sets the tone. You're not just going out—you're going out as lovers. Confidence Boost : You'll both feel more attractive, more relaxed, and more in sync. That glow? It's real. No Pressure Later : Instead of wondering if you'll be "in the mood" after dessert, you've already shared something delicious. 💡 Try This Tonight Set the Scene : Light a candle, play your favorite playlist, and give yourselves 30 minutes to reconnect—no rush, no expectations. Dress With Intention : Afterward, get ready together. Choose ...

The other day, I watched an older couple. There was a naturalness to them that went deep. Everything he did, from pulling her chair out to giving her a little squeeze on her thigh as she walked by him, was endearing to me. Everything that she did, from handing him his phone to knowing that one dessert would be plenty for them both, was charming to me. He loved her, and she obviously cherished and loved him. It was the way they didn't need to talk so much, yet the words of appreciation and thanks and genuine authenticity that ran electric through them, which was powerful. Watching them made me appreciate my man and my relationship with him even more than I already do.  Here are a few gentle reminders for you.  💖 Loving the Man Who Shows Up Every Day In the quiet rhythm of a long-term relationship, it's easy to forget that love isn't just built on grand gestures—it's sustained by the everyday heroism of showing up. Your man may not wear a cape, but he's a hero in...

Mutual Masturbation:  A Playful, Intimate Ritual That Deepens Connection For couples in long-term relationships, keeping the flame alive often means exploring new dimensions of intimacy—ones that go beyond routine or predictability. Enter mutual masturbation: a sacred, sensual practice where partners share the experience of self-pleasure together, whether side by side or via video, voice, or text. Done with trust, respect, and openness, it becomes a mirror for deeper emotional and physical intimacy—a dance of vulnerability and arousal that strengthens the foundation of your bond. 🌿 Why This Matters in Long-Term Love Over time, connection in a relationship can shift from thrilling to familiar. But erotic energy thrives on curiosity. Mutual masturbation offers a powerful way to rediscover each other—without the pressure to perform or the expectation of intercourse. It's intimate : You're choosing to share what was once private, offering a glimpse into your personal erotic ...

**Why Offer Your Guy a Prostate Massage?**   Because it feels phenomenal.  When the prostate is stimulated and engorged before climax, it heightens sensitivity and often leads to longer, more intense orgasms with a higher semen volume. Done regularly, prostate massage may also boost arousal, prevent issues like ED or PE, enhance erection quality, and elevate mood and energy. Yet many men never experience this pleasure due to stigma around anal play. Fear of discomfort or the misperception that enjoyment means something about their orientation holds them back. But every man has a prostate rich in nerve endings, waiting to be awakened. With love and intention, a massage from you becomes a gateway to discovery — fun, natural, and deeply connective. --- **Quick Intro to the Prostate**   The prostate is a walnut-sized gland that lives just above the testes, near the bladder. It produces seminal fluid — the nutrient-rich liquid that makes up most of a man’s ejaculate....

Erotic Hypnosis is a sexual fetish that's becoming popular, and everyone wants to know more about it. Erotic Hypnosis is Hypnosis with an added sexual component used to create a sexual response, increase arousal, and enhance sexual pleasure using words and trance. Erotic Hypnosis differs from traditional Hypnosis, having key benefits such as: get horny to come fulfill a fantasy have a great orgasm enjoy eroticism to relax and feel good During erotic Hypnosis, you enter into a trance state during which all your senses heighten to whatever stimuli your hypnotist suggests. You enter a multiverse or virtual reality as if it were playing out in real life. You're more open to suggestions, and an increase in focus and concentration occurs, allowing you to safely experience vivid fantasies that might have otherwise been taboo to explore with a partner. Some say that Erotic Hypnosis is thrilling and close to having a wet dream. So, Why Choose Erotic Hypnosis ? Erotic Hypnosis differs fr...

6 Reasons to Date a Guy Who Loves His Dirt Bike 🏁 Thinking of dating a dirt bike guy? ( I am ). Buckle up—here's why they're the ultimate ride-or-die. 1. He's All In (Even When Covered in Mud) From motocross tracks to relationships, he commits with passion and grit. 2. Spontaneity Is His Middle Name He'll text "Let's go" before you've finished your coffee. Adventure is his love language. 3. He's Handy (With More Than Just Tools) Tuning bikes, fixing flats, or tackling life's bumps—he's got it covered. 4. Loyal to the Core He sticks with his crew through wipeouts and wins. That kind of loyalty? Priceless. 5. Weekend Plans? Always Epic Racing under the sun or campfire nights after the ride—boredom is banned. 6. He Sees Beauty in the Journey Even dirt-caked boots have a story. He finds joy in movement, meaning in messes. 📸 Tag a dirt bike guy who deserves a high five—or a date. 💬 Save & share if you know this guy, o...

While researching this blog post, I was led down a rabbit hole and to the topic of Adult Love Dolls. When I clicked on a website, I was surprised by how intensely turned on I was by the life-like dolls. As I browsed the website, a fantasy began to take shape in my mind about me, my lover, and a female love doll.  And that night, while parked on top of a hill in my white Mazda at the power lines with my lover R to catch a fantastic sunset, I, with a trim level of shyness, leaned in close to nuzzle his neck, and share in a whisper in his ear my newest sexual fantasy. 

There is no better way to spice up your relationship and sex life than by adding outdoor sex. It is well-known that couples who have more sex tend to be closer and enjoy more satisfying relationships. Conversely, a lack of sex can cause tension and strain even the most committed long-term relationships. However, it's not enough just to have sex; how often you step outside the bedroom to have sex also matters. Regular bedroom sex, while enjoyable, can become boring and monotonous, leading many couples to have little or no sex due to a lack of spontaneity, variety, and falling into the 'same-old' routine.  Outdoor sex is all about adventure. Home is filled with laundry and unwashed dishes, while your local forest is full of dappled sunlight and sturdy trees to hold onto. In a study by the House Method, it says that on average, "Those who had bedroom sex had 5.8 days of sex per month, versus those who switched locations had sex 10.9 times a month. So it seems that venturi...

If you think your 20s are the best years for passionate bedroom intimacy, you may want to reconsider. Here are seven benefits of being in your 50s when it comes to bedroom life. 1. You Know What Turns You On. Once you reach your 50s, you discover what genuinely excites you. You learn how to self-pleasure and bring yourself to a fantastic climax. You don’t necessarily need a partner, but having someone to communicate your desires with can be stimulating and fulfilling. Consider this: when you’re with someone you’re comfortable with, you can show them what you like, which excites them and leads to satisfying intimacy in the bedroom. 2. You Exude Body Self-Confidence. Unlike in your younger years, you’re hopefully no longer self-conscious about your body or its less-favorite parts. Embracing yourself fosters a sense of freedom both for yourself and your partner, increasing your sexual libido and response. You view bedroom intimacy as a form of self-expression and are more inclined to go n...

👁️ Lock Eyes, Unlock Love: Eye Contact The Love Language You Forgot You Spoke.  💑 Eye contact isn't just romantic—it's relational glue.    Look up from the noise, lock eyes, and remember why you fell in love. 💫   They say the eyes are the windows to the soul... but in relationships, they're also the gateway to feeling seen , loved , and connected . In the whirlwind of routines, texts, and daily distractions, many couples forget the simplest gesture that says, "I'm here with you, I got you." That gesture? Eye contact. 💞 Why It Matters It grounds you in the present moment—no schedules, no stress, just you two . It speaks volumes without saying a word. Affection, understanding, even that "I love you" look. It rekindles attraction , reminding you of the spark that started it all. 🤍 Tiny Truth, Big Impact Eye contact isn't just about seeing your partner—it's about witnessing them. A long look across the dinner table, the wink after a ...

A humid summer rainstorm was passing through, and there was a lull. We had just finished our hike, and after stopping to enjoy an ice cream at a busy local ice cream stand, were now in my Mazda, parked under a grove of maple and oak trees to enjoy a bit more time together before we each left to go home. He pushed the driver's side door open to let a much-welcomed breeze in and stripped the sweat covered blue microfiber hooded sunshirt he wore off, tugged the button to take his seat all the way back, sighed a contented sigh, closed his eyes and stretched his long tanned and toned arms over his head behind him to rest on the headrest.  His bare torso looked so good that  I couldn't resist running my fingers through his white chest hair and down to the darkened strip of softer brown-red hair that landed just above his belly button, circling the sensitive skin a few times before going back up. Continuing my oval-shaped pattern over the front of him, I whispered in admiration just ...

As I was packing up the back of my White Mazda after the previous night of play with my lover R, and putting the sheets in their bag, a curious question popped up in my head.  Is car sex worth it? And I smiled because, for me - and while I cannot speak for my lover, although I'm sure he'd 100% agree - for me, car sex is worth it - 10x and more.  It's portable.  Convenient at any given spur of the moment.  It's sexy.  And playful.  Most importantly, it connects me with my lover in a way that the bedroom does not.  We meet at a local Panera or Dunkin.   I hand my key over to him, and he takes it from there as far as destination goes; somewhere where there are hiking trails and most often a gorgeous sunset.  My part's easy - I break out the car sex supplies from the large Rubbermaid container that I keep in the back of my car.  Sheets, coconut oil, baby wipes, great music, food, sometimes black nylons, and the mood. The closeness of our bod...

I cannot stress how important it is to be interdependent on your partner in a long-term relationship. The word "interdependence" (as I interpret it) means that you both maintain your independence while being together in a committed relationship.  You both have things you like to do  together. You both have things you like to do apart.  And then you both have things you like to do for a few days apart. Why is interdependence necessary? Because you and your partner both stay true to who you are without losing that sense of who you are in the middle of all the stuff that a long-term relationship can bring to the forefront.  Interdependence makes me feel sexy again because it has me put myself in others' shoes, and allows me to see myself as they see me.  Interdependence brings me confidence, self-assurance, and self-esteem.  Time apart (as the old saying goes) brings people closer together. It makes the heart fonder because it allows space for you and them...

Are you in a long-term relationship with a Taurus man? I am. After learning more about his astrological sign, I discovered 7 main ways I consistently use to keep him interested in me and around me.  These 7 methods require stability, trust, and just a tiny bit of romance.  These aren't mind games or ways that will 'trap' your Taurus man into staying with you; instead, these 7 ways will ensure you stay on top of your game as well as ensure that your Taurus man sees the value in you, therefore making him realize how important you are to him.  Remember that while reading the list below, these 7 ways work for me and my relationship. It's essential to find a method of applying them that works for you and your relationship, not to copy exactly what's here.  Enjoy and remember to have fun and not take it so seriously. -Shannon 1.  Be a steady presence:   Your  Taurus man values reliability and consistency. He'll appreciate you when you're dependable, i...

Are you dating a Taurus man? What I mean by that is a Taurus man has the astrological birthdates of April 20 - May 20. And Taurus men are known to be dependable, grounded, secure, ruled by the planet Venus - the planet of love, beauty, and luxury.  Taurus men are drawn to the finer things in life. They love their homes, are creatures of comfort, enjoy being spoiled and taken care of, and are one of the best lovers in the astrological chart; they will usually never say no to sex, unless they are heavily weighed down by something that's bothering them and is on their minds.  They enjoy their partners to be self-sufficient, are drawn to and turned on by partners who continue to self-educated themselves in whatever interests them and love great conversation. Taurus men thrive on partners who always want to keep themselves in top condition - whether that be with physical exercise or keeping themselves looking good with clothing that's classical and up-to-date yet not overly outland...

Hi, it's been a bit since I've written here, and I thought it would be good to share  what's been happening with R and me. The news headline below inspired me.  May you leave with a seed planted.  "Rosalynn Carter, who as first lady worked tirelessly on behalf of mental health reform and professionalized the role of the president's spouse, died Sunday, November 19, 2023, at 96", according to the Carter Center.  "Rosalynn was my equal partner in everything I ever accomplished," her husband, former President Jimmy Carter, said. " She gave me wise guidance and encouragement when I needed it. As long as Rosalynn was in the world, I always knew somebody loved and supported me."

  Hey there. 🙂 Would you agree that if something isn't great or mediocre, most people would want to do their best to improve it—especially in their relationships? It's normal that we typically like to ensure that our romantic relationships last and improve over time.  Yet, I have a secret for you: even if you constantly improve your relationship, you might feel increasingly annoyed and less in love without practicing the necessary skills to manage your expectations within your relationship realistically.  Manage Expectations by Changing Your Thoughts How you think about your partner can significantly impact your relationship experience. And so it's essential to think about – and possibly change – your thought patterns about your partner. For instance, when you hit a low in the relationship, it's not uncommon for you to harbor negative, critical thoughts about your partner.  You may think your partner's selfish or doesn't care about you.  You may think your part...

With a little effort and determination, everyone can spice up their relationship—no matter how long they are together. And do you want to know the best part? The more often you add spice, the easier and more natural it becomes for both of you. Here are four things to know to keep your relationship alive.  The Four Things.  1. Nurturing Relationships Takes Watering.  We grow up in a world that tells us that if we are the right person – love, attraction, and sex are easily attainable, like magic. Yet, the reality is that while your social media feed is filled with images of people seemingly having perfect relationships and sex lives, many relationship and sex therapists see what others don't see: real-life couples struggling with intimacy and connection. These couples feel like something is missing because they're having sex—they stopped looking at each other lovingly like they did when they first began dating. Know that nothing is wrong with your relationshi...