I cannot stress how important it is to be interdependent on your partner in a long-term relationship. The word "interdependence" (as I interpret it) means that you both maintain your independence while being together in a committed relationship. You both have things you like to do together. You both have things you like to do apart. And then you both have things you like to do for a few days apart. Why is interdependence necessary? Because you and your partner both stay true to who you are without losing that sense of who you are in the middle of all the stuff that a long-term relationship can bring to the forefront. Interdependence makes me feel sexy again because it has me put myself in others' shoes, and allows me to see myself as they see me. Interdependence brings me confidence, self-assurance, and self-esteem. Time apart (as the old saying goes) brings people closer together. It makes the heart fonder because it allows space for you and them...
Standing at his kitchen sink this morning , he wraps his arms around me and spins me around, looking into my sleepy green eyes with his content blue ones. And says one phrase. You can't make up the moist; it must mean I'm doing a good job... He pulls me in for a lingering, barely there kiss; his body and mine mesh together for a brief moment before the Tik-Tok You-Tube station begins looping in the background on the big-screen TV that his daughter is currently in charge of. He's right; you can't make up the moist and wet that was there in my pussy, and yes, he did a very good job last night. Our sex was close with dirty whispers of each other's deepest fantasies. My legs wrapped around his hips. Squeezing and pulling his body deeper into mine. His hips pumped. We kissed and pulled each other's hair. The moonlight silhouettes of us on the wall; him grabbing my ass. Me tugging at his balls. Our sounds of sex echoed in his...