Erotica by Shannon

Why Interdependence Is the Secret to Feeling Sexy, Strong, and Seen in Long-Term Love I cannot Stress enough how vital it is to be interdependent with your partner in a long-term relationship. Interdependence means maintaining your independence while being deeply committed to each other. You have things you love doing together, things you enjoy doing separately, and even moments where a few days apart feel rejuvenating. Why is this balance so necessary? Because it helps you stay true to yourself. Long-term relationships can blur identities, but interdependence keeps you grounded in your true self. Being in a genuine interdependent long-term relationship makes me feel sexy again—because it invites empathy, perspective, and self-reflection. I see myself through my partner's eyes, and I like what I see. It brings confidence, self-assurance, and self-esteem. Time apart doesn't weaken the bond—it strengthens it. It reminds you not to take each other for granted and helps you appreci...

🌱 May you leave with a seed planted. The news of Rosalynn Carter's passing stirred something in me. She was a woman who stood beside her husband not just in title, but in truth. "Rosalynn was my equal partner in everything I ever accomplished," Jimmy Carter said. "She gave me wise guidance and encouragement when I needed it. As long as Rosalynn was in the world, I always knew somebody loved and supported me." That kind of love—the kind that steadies you, that sees you, that stays—is rare.  And it made me think of R. About a month ago, I stepped out on faith and told R I loved him.  I didn't expect him to say it back. I know how he moves through the world—his love is quiet, steady, shown in what he does more than what he says. I get that. Still, even with that understanding, my fears and doubts crept in -- I'd just exposed a part of me that's a bit shy, insecure, and vulnerable.   They whispered stories I didn't ask to hear. My mind took me on a ...

💑 Four Ways to Keep Your Relationship Thriving After 50 With a little effort and intention, any relationship can be reignited—no matter how many anniversaries you've celebrated. And here's the beautiful truth: the more often you add a little spark, the more natural and joyful it becomes. Whether you've been together for 20, 30, or even 50 years, these four essentials can help you keep your relationship alive, intimate, and deeply fulfilling. 1. 🌱 Water What You've Planted We live in a culture that romanticizes effortless love. But real intimacy—especially the kind that spans decades—needs tending. If your relationship feels a little dry, don't panic. It's not broken. It's just thirsty. Many couples stop looking at each other with the same warmth they had when they first fell in love. They're still having Sex, but the emotional connection feels muted. That's normal. And fixable. Start by acknowledging that your relationship deserves attention. Then,...

Still Sexy: How Couples Over 50 Can Reawaken Intimacy Have you been with your partner for decades and still cherish the closeness, laughter, and sensuality you share? If so, you're not alone—and you're certainly not out of options when it comes to reigniting sexual desire. Let's be clear: this isn't about acrobatics or chasing the latest bedroom trend. It's about understanding how your brain shapes desire—and how you can gently reawaken that spark with intention, curiosity, and care. 💞 From Fireworks to Deep Connection In the early days of love, everything feels electric. A glance, a touch, a whisper—your whole body responds. But over time, that initial rush naturally settles into something more profound: emotional intimacy, trust, and comfort. This shift isn't a sign that passion is gone; it's a sign that it's evolving. It's a sign that your relationship has matured. And while you may not feel the same urgency for Sex, that doesn't mean desire ...

🔥Stress Less, Love More: Keeping Intimacy Alive After 50 Let's be honest—life after 50 can be rich, layered, and deeply satisfying. But it can also be noisy. Between career transitions, caregiving, health shifts, and the quiet hum of long-term partnership, Stress has a way of sneaking into the bedroom and dimming the glow. And yet… the desire for connection doesn't fade. If anything, it deepens. For couples who've weathered decades together, intimacy becomes less about novelty and more about nuance. It's the slow burn, the knowing glance, the shared history that makes touch feel electric. But Stress? It's the thief of that electricity. So how do we reclaim it? 1. Stress Is a Libido Killer—But You Can Outsmart It Stress doesn't just live in your mind; it settles in your body. It tightens muscles, shortens breath, and hijacks hormones. And when cortisol is running the show, desire often takes a back seat. But here's the good news: you've got tools. Breath...

I met you in kiss and flame,  Reached for truth beneath the skin,  Trembled close to where you feel,  Afraid to name this aching truth.

💬 Does Size Really Matter?  Let's Talk About What Truly Counts By the time we've hit our stride in life—careers established, families formed, and relationships deepened—we've learned that intimacy isn't about chasing perfection. It's about connection, trust, and knowing what makes each other tick. So, with that said, does penis size matter? Sure, it's a question that's echoed through locker rooms and late-night conversations for decades. But for those of us in long-term, fulfilling relationships, the answer is far more nuanced—and far less about inches. 🧠 What Really Fuels Desire After 50 Emotional intimacy : Feeling seen, heard, and valued is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Confidence and communication : Knowing what you want—and being able to ask for it—beats any physical attribute. Playfulness and curiosity : Exploring together, laughing together, and staying open to new experiences keep the spark alive. 💡 The Honest Real Truth About Size Science tell...