Sharing Your Erotic Fantasy

While researching this blog post, I was led down a rabbit hole and to the topic of Adult Love Dolls. When I clicked on a website, I was surprised by how intensely turned on I was by the life-like dolls. As I browsed the website, a fantasy began to take shape in my mind about me, my lover, and a female love doll. And that night, while parked on top of a hill in my white Mazda at the power lines with my lover R to catch a fantastic sunset, I, with a trim level of shyness, leaned in close to nuzzle his neck, and share in a whisper in his ear my newest sexual fantasy. 

Did you know that your level of sexual arousal begins in your brain? 

And, according to the records of the Kinsey Institute, 97% of people have sexual fantasies that they are reluctant to share with their partners. That's a lot of people having cool arousal thoughts all by themselves. The truth is that, more specifically, most women have sexual fantasies and often will hold out for that special partner who they trust to be open-minded and willing to explore the depths of their mind, without her fearing being criticized or made to feel like having sexual fantasies is wrong. That's even more people having cool arousal thoughts alone. 

The thing is that it's essential to recognize that your fantasies are just that, fantasies, and are for the most part slated to remain in your brain and not fully acted out. It's the sharing of your fantasy that's the game changer and is what creates that deep, intimate bond with your partner and is the ultimate turn-on; you and they know your naughtiest sexual mind. Sharing your erotic fantasy with your partner is about building trust and true intimacy between you both. 

Plus, as a bonus, you'll learn a great deal about yourself and them, which makes your intimate bond grow even deeper. Sharing of something so personal such as a sexual fantasy can be hard because it is a highly vulnerable position that you put yourself in. You open yourself up to letting that other person know something about you that's yours. The thing to remember is that you get to choose which fantasies you want to share; you have the power, not the other person. And when you find that person - the one that you can trust with anything - sharing your erotic with them is priceless.