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There is no better way to spice up your relationship and sex life than by adding outdoor sex. It is well-known that couples who have more sex tend to be closer and enjoy more satisfying relationships. Conversely, a lack of sex can cause tension and strain even the most committed long-term relationships. However, it's not enough just to have sex; how often you step outside the bedroom to have sex also matters. Regular bedroom sex, while enjoyable, can become boring and monotonous, leading many couples to have little or no sex due to a lack of spontaneity, variety, and falling into the 'same-old' routine. 

Outdoor sex is all about adventure. Home is filled with laundry and unwashed dishes, while your local forest is full of dappled sunlight and sturdy trees to hold onto.

In a study by the House Method, it says that on average, "Those who had bedroom sex had 5.8 days of sex per month, versus those who switched locations had sex 10.9 times a month. So it seems that venturing outside the bedroom doubles the days couples have sex in a month." And Emily McCrary-Ruiz-Esparza, the brand editor at the House Method, says, "Let's be honest; the bedroom is not the only place you get aroused. So if you can get comfortable with the idea that sex is not just for the bedroom, you may start having more sex!" 

1. Communicate and Compromise

Talk with your partner to come up with something that satisfies both of you regarding your outdoor sex adventure.
Perhaps you could start small by setting up the back of your vehicle with blankets and music, then parking in a secluded area at night. Whatever you decide, communicate and compromise because having sex starts with that. You must first find what works and honors both of you.

2. Create Excitement: Choose a Spot

Did you know that back in the day, everyone except the wealthy had sex outside because, at that time, the wealthy were the only ones who had private rooms? The best way to create excitement is to take deliberate steps to get off the beaten path, choose a spot, and explore new and interesting places. Whether it's a forest, a campsite, in your car in a parking lot, at a secluded spot on the beach, or somewhere else, it will rekindle your passion and desire for each other significantly.   

3. Learn About Yourself

A lot will go through your mind when you decide to have outdoor sex. The adrenaline rush that courses through your body when you're afraid of being caught is unmatched, and yet the excitement and thrill make it a worthwhile and thrilling experience. If you didn't realize or forgot just how exciting sex can be, you'll soon rediscover how much it can be, and you'll learn a lot of new things about yourself and your personality in the process.

4. Prepare

When you're both ready, get prepared. Make sure your phone is fully charged and that you have GPS or map service. Pack a backpack with your favorite lubricant, water, bug spray, snacks, and a large towel. Watch out for poison ivy, sumac, or oak, as well as terrain and wildlife, and remember your bearings. If bugs start taking over your outdoor sex adventure, pack up and move it to the car. While a few bugs are okay, hundreds can ruin the moment.

5. Make Great Memories

Remember, this is your outdoor adventure! Experiment, play, and have fun by using your natural surroundings to try different positions and fantasies you've wanted to explore but felt hesitant about in the bedroom. Being outdoors helps you let go of body insecurities, boosts your confidence, and both you and your partner will enjoy being outside and appreciating how you each look in the natural sunlight. The memories you'll create will stay with you forever and be something you're grateful for. You'll realize just how special and meaningful your relationship truly is.   

6. Experience Relationship Satisfaction

As a couple, you have the chance to communicate and be intimate on an entirely new level, and the day after your outdoor sex adventure is the perfect time to exchange multiple texts about your experience, bringing you closer than ever. Couples who have sex outside the bedroom, in different areas, are generally happier, more satisfied with life, and more confident in their relationships. They flirt more with each other and naturally feel the desire to be touchy-feely with one another more often.

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