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He Glazed Me with His Honey

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It was a night after I'd seen bodywork clients; driving to R's, I began to wind down and, lighting a joint, listened to Sade on the way there. Her music always got me thinking about car sex with R; we'd had car sex the night before, and images, sounds, and tastes were fresh in my mind.  I pulled into his long gravel driveway and rolled the windows down, getting a whiff of the farm smells I loved. Gathering my things, I stood outside and looked up, taking in the crisp air for a moment longer, fully letting go of my day. My eyes wandered into the ink-blue sky, and m y mind slowed to match the relaxed pace I felt right there in the driveway, which I knew was because he'd been caring for his fort and family all day, something very satisfying for him.   I've arrived, is the thought that floated through my mind as I walked through the garage and into a fantastic garlic-scented, warm, wood-stove-heated basement and house. It was an incredible feeling to walk into the house...
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Reignite the Spark Before You Step Out

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💫 Flip the Script: Why Sex Before Date Night Might Be Your Best Move Yet Long-term love is a beautiful thing—but let's be honest, it can also get a little... predictable. You've done the dinners, the movies, the "we'll see how we feel later" routine. But what if you flipped the script? Here's a bold idea: make love before you leave the house. 🔥 Why It Works Instant Connection : Physical intimacy before date night sets the tone. You're not just going out—you're going out as lovers. Confidence Boost : You'll both feel more attractive, more relaxed, and more in sync. That glow? It's real. No Pressure Later : Instead of wondering if you'll be "in the mood" after dessert, you've already shared something delicious. 💡 Try This Tonight Set the Scene : Light a candle, play your favorite playlist, and give yourselves 30 minutes to reconnect—no rush, no expectations. Dress With Intention : Afterward, get ready together. Choose ...
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Loving the Man Who Shows Up Every Day

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The other day, I watched an older couple. There was a naturalness to them that went deep. Everything he did, from pulling her chair out to giving her a little squeeze on her thigh as she walked by him, was endearing to me. Everything that she did, from handing him his phone to knowing that one dessert would be plenty for them both, was charming to me. He loved her, and she obviously cherished and loved him. It was the way they didn't need to talk so much, yet the words of appreciation and thanks and genuine authenticity that ran electric through them, which was powerful. Watching them made me appreciate my man and my relationship with him even more than I already do.  Here are a few gentle reminders for you.  💖 Loving the Man Who Shows Up Every Day In the quiet rhythm of a long-term relationship, it's easy to forget that love isn't just built on grand gestures—it's sustained by the everyday heroism of showing up. Your man may not wear a cape, but he's a hero in...
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